Friday, May 13, 2022

深夜反思

 


一个女生 定位在于 ; 女人 , 女王,女孩,公主,泼妇
就在于 你的另一半 如何对待

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你可以 ‘’ , 但不可以 ‘

你可以 忙着追求事业 ,打工 , 到后来你也许会得到金钱来满足你自己
你可以追求要个完美的 家庭,只求 老了有老公孩子相伴到老

但若是 你一直盲目的追求 也不知道最后你想要得到什么 为了什么,
再累计了一大堆 情绪 责任 亏欠 还有什么道德绑架的
没有了 时间 与 自由
到最后 失去自己 ...
这时候 你应该好好想一想
‘你 快乐吗?’
‘你还够不够爱你自己 ?’

别去谈 如何去爱另一个人
if you dont even know how to love yourself even at the first place。

习惯做大女人 去照顾别人, 
也是时候 做回小女孩了。
不要再委屈自己了

Sunday, December 15, 2019

Sister YinPing's Wedding

Wedding Plan from sisters
So before the Big Day of YinPing's wedding actual date , the planning goes like this :
On April, we started planning on our bridesmaid outfit with the concept of wearing suit. The bride wanted the sisters to looks endao 'handsome'. the kind of long sleeve with short pants.



Till July, after much considerations , to make sure the sisters feel comfortable and easier for the whole day activities , YP 'the Bride' then suggest us to wear this :

A t-shirt paired with skirts and high socks. Something more free and easy. Placing all the customized order in TAOBAO months before the actual date so we still have time to alter the skirt or shirt if the measurement does not fit. And luckily thanks to Ee Lin, the clothes arrived safely around end of September and it fit everyone measurement. hahahaha. Around October, we started to plan on games for the groomsman. With very much consideration from the sisters of not going overboard on the groomsman for the game session. Excluded the option from Linlin of placing in prawns, frogs or clams in the bucket full with ice water and wanted the groomsman to pick them up with feet and still considering to consume those poor thing after all this thing. ╮(╯﹏╰)╭ hahahahahah. None of us get it as well.


By the end of October, we then discussed on where and what to do with our nails. By then i mean manicure and paints. We started to spam whatsapp with many ideas for the bride to choose with after we booked for our mani and pedi session on November.

This is mine from Shenail.
Thanks to pretty lady boss Emily for the whole pedi and mani session.

There come November which left us just few days of purchasing and preparation before the big day.
Thanks to Junette for designing the declaration of love '爱的宣言' far from Singapore.
Bringing the bride out to get ready for the last preparation on her big day.
The artistic sister Ee Lin, made her a pair of red packet box for the dinner.
And the last minute preparation - board of forfeit. Thanks boy for helping in.
Then by the night , we started to discuss our morning hairstyle to coordinate our bridesmaid outfit. And thanks again to Linlin who make Ee Lin and everyone spam almost more than 30 shot of dresses and different dinner wear in whatsapp because she have nothing to wear.(ノ ̄▽ ̄)

Thanks to Summer Fairyland for the customized preserved flower hand bouquet for the bride and the corsage ‘胸花’ for the bridesmaid, groomsman, the groom and their family during dinner night.
#preserved flower and as blue to coordinate the bridal gown in the morning of the big day.
#fresh rose for the couple family during dinner night
#baby's breath ‘满天星’ for the bridesmaid and groomsman. And the special rose for the groom.
Passed all the item to Yin Ping house on the pre-wedding night as what we called 'Lao Tia Meh' and have a small gather with the sisters for the last preparation before the next morning of the actual wedding day.

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09 November 2019
Yin Ping's Big Day

Slept at 3am the other night and woke up at 5:30 AM in the morning and gather at Yin Ping house at 7:45 AM. Get ready with all the games before the groom arrival and did some photo shooting session.



The Game Session

 #the best man and me, the maid of honor
#Yin Ping precious one - Baby Jules
And so after tea session , we had another sisters brothers photo shoot at YP area before travelling to Hason the groom place.

Dropping by two temple before heading to Hason's house.
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The Dinner Night

Went early with the sisters to the dinner venue around 6:30 PM to assist on the reception booth.
 #YinpingSquad
And this fairy tale live happily ever after....

Video from VITO PRODUCTION

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a short secret video surprise for the bride upon request from the videographer during the tea session held on YP house.
Last few words from me ,
thanks for having me as the maid of honor ‘伴娘’ although i felt very thanksfull for the best man for taking in my place most of the time when im out to nowhere 'most probably photo shoot and video shoot' hahahah sorry for that. But ya, just wanna tell you that you're now finally being a Wife to a husband, a Mom to a son, a role to us single ladies out here hahahahah but whenever which stage you proceed in your life, you're still a sister to us, a friend with a far distance friendship which stay strong no matter what happen. 一起向着未来的很多个未知共同奔跑和加油加油加油!!
hahaヽ(゚∀゚)メ(゚∀゚)ノ